Top 7 Ways To Hold On To Your Dreams

                        Defeating your fear! 

                                                            By   Peter Odofin

There is a jail that has a detainee populace in the billions. It's a jail without dividers, without security fencing, without watches and with no physical boundary. Be that as it may, it is the best jail in the entire world. Scarcely any escape it, yet the individuals who do discover genuine and enduring flexibility.

That jail is in our psyches. It is a jail that keeps down our drive, our ability, our capacity to communicate and, a large portion of all, it keeps down the satisfaction of our maximum capacity as people.

That jail is fear. Our lives today are controlled by fear more than we know. Dread controls the decisions we make, our activities, our propensities and even our fates. Dread has turned out to be one of the best dangers to mankind in this day in its many structures. Psychological oppression has turned into the zenith of dread around the world. Late occasions on the planet have demonstrated how dread can drive even those that are intense to carry on frantically and unfeelingly. However, the impact of dread on our own lives is all the more harming that any fear monger can ever want to accomplish. Dread of life keeps the greater part of us from living.

Dread of life? Indeed. "An excessive number of individuals are considering security rather than circumstance. They appear to be more apprehensive of life than death." This perception was made by James F. Bymes.

Beating dread – the many appearances of dread

In its extremes, fear in our own lives causes nervousness and fears. For individuals with such sicknesses the jail of dread can appear like a capital punishment. Their lives might be completely controlled by fear, making life absolutely unenjoyable and regular errands a genuine battle. Luckily, this isn't the most widely recognized indication of dread. The significantly more ruinous type of dread is one that we have come to acknowledge in light of the fact that it is so normal.

For instance, I recall obviously how when I was in my first year at college I met a great deal of kindred understudies that were spreading dread wherever they went. They would state how troublesome the main year of regular science thinks about was and how gravely individuals were coming up short the course. They had every one of the measurements of what number of individuals flopped a year ago and the year prior to that. They'd say things like "50 individuals fizzled that course a year ago." What they didn't let you know was that 400 individuals passed a similar course a year ago.

All the seven years I was at college, were the same. Consistently there were individuals talking fate and disappointment. Regularly, it appeared in the outcomes they got. They were similar individuals attempting to pass. I, and numerous others like me, overcame it farely unscathed. We saw the 90 percent that passed and not the 10 percent that fizzled.

Defeating dread – dread can prevent you from advancing

There are those of you out there with splendid business thoughts. What keeps you down is fear. You consider every one of the insights of what number of organizations flop each year, or what your loved ones will consider you on the off chance that you quit your business to seek after your fantasies. The dread of not having the capacity to pay your bills, dread of getting terminated, dread of beginning once again and the dread of not having a vocation title all keep you down. It is expect that keeps the vast majority of us in occupations we hate and, some of the time, that don't meet our money related necessities.

The dread of going for broke is one that few individuals can overcome. Hazard is the potential damage that may emerge from some present procedure or from some future occasion. In each range of life chance taking is a vital thing. In the event that you propose marriage to somebody you need to go out on a limb that they may state no. On the off chance that you are in a race you need to go out on a limb that you may lose hopelessly. In the event that you need to live to its fullest you need to go for broke of disappointment. As Dorothy Thompson stated: "Just when we are not any more anxious do we start to live."

Dread will deaden you on the off chance that you don't manage it. It will totally prevent you from carrying on with an existence that you want. Remember it. Vanquish it. Eleanor Roosevelt's recommendation is that "you pick up quality, bravery, and certainty by each involvement in which you truly stop to look fear in the face. You should do the thing which you figure you can't do."

Beating dread – there's nothing to fear except for fear itself

I'm certain you have had an involvement in the past when you truly dreaded something. In the wake of doing it how could you feel. Senseless? Dumb? The inclination is regularly one of "that wasn't so difficult all things considered. I don't comprehend what I feared." Trying to battle fear resembles endeavoring to battle the dim. You can't do it. The best approach to dispose of haziness is to acquire the light. The best approach to dispose of your apprehensions is to overcome them. "Do the thing you dread to do and continue doing it... that is the speediest and surest way at any point yet found to vanquish fear" ( Dale Carnegie).

Conquering dread – you can do it today

Simply ahead and begin that business you need to begin. Simply ahead and think about what you truly need to consider. Simply ahead and turn into a performer, writer, craftsman, mold architect or whatever else you need to do. Beyond any doubt you may flop, yet you may succeed as well. Go for broke today and vanquish your feelings of dread. Would you like to think back a long time from now and figure I could have, I may have, and I ought to have. That is a miserable approach to carry on with your life.

Beating dread – the purposelessness of taking no chances

Keep in mind that regardless of how "safe" you play it one destiny anticipates every one of us. That is passing. Regardless of whether you go out on a limb or not you will kick the bucket. So of what advantage is it to you to be under the burden of dread and carry on with an existence that is path underneath your potential? Utilize your life astutely. Free your brain from dread and stress and let it all out.

Conquering dread – the conclusion

There is just thing you should fear and that is God. That ought not be a dread of fear, but rather of love. "For God hath not given us the soul of dread; but rather of energy, and of affection, and of a sound personality." Feed your confidence and your feelings of dread will starve to death.

You are everything you can be. Go on and be it.



Peter Oluwatosin Odofin is a Publisher, Writer, Blogger,  an Entrepreneur and a career coach  . He is the MD/CEO of Pet -Dof International Consulting Limited which is into Educational Consulting, Career & Self development, Travels & Tours and Publishing.

He is passionate about encouraging financial independence and engaging young entrepreneurs (Youths) on the steps needed to be at top  of their chosen career.
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