Telling is NOT Training

 By kayode Ariba, LSSBB



Wouldn't it be incredible on the off chance that you could advise individuals what you needed them to do and they would take care of business? How frequently have you been disappointed in light of the fact that you told a worker (or your child) what you required them to do and they didn't do it?

Giving out instructions is not  the same as teaching a new skill or behavior. A perfect example is teaching a student time management so he can prioritize tasks and accurately judge the amount time needed to complete them. or For kids, a new behavior could be learning how to tidy up the rooms every-week  . A case of giving information is telling another worker where the lunchroom is found.

When you are asking another worker or an understudy to take in another conduct we have discovered that telling isn't viable. You can't simply let them know and expect comes about. We have conversed with such a large number of human resource experts and supervisors who let us know: "We spend 60 minutes (and in some cases just 5 minutes!) telling our new workers precisely what we expect of them. We give them an Employee Handbook. They don't tune in. What would we be able to do?"

Keep in mind to the first occasion when you advised your kid to clean his room? When you returned to check his advance you may have discovered that he moved a couple of toys around, yet the room certainly did not coordinate your concept of clean. Your kid was not being troublesome; he didn't see how to clean his room or what you expected of him. "Clean your room" was not an important guideline.

Along these lines, you understood that you needed to approach it slowly and carefully – more than a few days or weeks. Initially you disclosed that he expected to secure all the toys. The first run through you expected to assemble the toys away – so he would know where to put each toy. You likely thought that it was useful to disclose why he expected to put the toys away: "Put your toys away so they don't get ventured on and broken. You will have the capacity to discover your toys when you need to play with them." Next you informed him concerning securing the shoes, at that point putting all the filthy garments in the bushel and hanging up the perfect garments. At long last you demonstrated to him generally accepted methods to make his bed. To enable your youngster to remain propelled you utilized a reward design – a gold star for each undertaking. Your kid's room was spotless, he saw a few explanations behind every conduct and having a perfect room. Your kid took in another arrangement of practices.

When you develop this thought up to grown-ups or youthful grown-ups preparing despite everything you need a rundown of the subjects you need to cover, approaches to make the material pertinent to your understudies, approaches to connect with the enthusiasm of your understudies, cases of the new practices and activities so your understudies can hone the new practices. When you make a conduct applicable to a worker or understudy you are helping him comprehend: "how might this benefit me."

Learning work etiquette is akin to doing domestic chores. If a student has not been exposed to  a strong work ethic in his home  would find it hard to cope with the office stress. May be he learned  a different set of values and behaviors growing. Mom and Dad were caught in the revolving door of entry level jobs and they were just barely able to keep the family afloat. When teaching a new behavior like work ethics the training process must also overcome bad habits learned in the past. You may need to overcome many years of bad habits.

You may be feeling discouraged about our fresh graduates entering the work force. You might ask: "Where would we get qualified workers?"Those bad habits were learned and our youth can learn new things. Th importance of a training at work place cannot be over emphasized: Make it interacting, interesting, and relevant. It is also important you have a reward program for good behaviors.

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