HOW TO AVOID HEARTBREAK IN RELATIONSHIP

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These are the things to do to avoid heartbreak in relationship. They are;

1. Date with your head 
The plea to date responsibly goes out to women and men alike. Although it isn't my intention to pardon men from irresponsible behavior. Nor is it my goal to excuse their lack of committed to you at times. The more responsibility you take for your own happiness, the more probable it is that what you seek will indeed come into fruition. Whatever your past or present, it's important focus on your future. Dating responsibly is the topics of my new e-book and i create it with your heart in mind. I encourage you to guard it. It's more than precious and each prick it endures leaves a scar that is why is so important to date with your head and heart.

2. Accept Responsibility
Some men won't end up to the task of managing the responsibility that comes with your heart. However, one of the first steps in the process of dating responsibly is realizing that your fulfillment and satisfaction ultimately begins and end with you. 

3. Know Yourself
Many don't know what they truly want in life; Let alone whether or not they want a relationship or not. This sometimes mean they are frustrated by what they receive. I encourage you to discover your ideals and goals. It will ultimately simplify your dating experience.

4. Be aware of your relationship surroundings
When two people aren't on the same page while dating, future disappointment looms. For instance: you may not want to get married today but it's definitely a goal in the future. I know it's an extreme example but knowing what you want can keep you from having to end something that should never have gone that far.

5. Don't be afraid to walk away 
 If you know that things just aren’t right for you, then make sure that you find the strength and willpower to walk away. Be honest with yourself. If things just aren’t meant to be, then there’s no point in forcing the issue. Don’t invest yourself further and further into something that you know isn’t going to last anyway.

Source: https://www.essence.com/love/relationships/date-responsibly

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