Tips to avoid negative influences in life

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 Negative influences and sarcasm are all around us these days. They can take us down and wash our dreams down the drain.Negative influences not only can destroy your self-image but also pull your self-esteem down into a danger zone never to be back again.Focusing on the positive sides can be hard at first since there are so many bad or negative influences around, but by following some simple guidelines you can overcome this and concentrate your mind on the positive things.

Here are some tips to help you avoid those negative influences in life.They are as follow;

Avoid negative work environment: This type of environmental ruin your self esteem because no one will appreciate your contribution, even if you miss lunch and dinner to stay at work late at night unless you are very lucky that most of the time working very hard, without any help from others around you.  Not only a healthy competition, at worst is cruel and dangerous.If you find yourself in this kind of environment, just try and get out of there quickly.

Do not live in the past: Some people live in the past they cannot forget their past experiences, something that hurts and it still hurts. Crying is good if you feel pain but do not let the pain to dominate your life, if you do, your life will be transformed into never-ending fear and phobias. If something embarrassing happens or happened to you, find a way to mitigate the effects by discussing it with a friend, family member or professional if necessary and move on. Do not let it continue to dominate your life and destroy your future. If you have bad experiences in the past, it doesn't mean that you are going to have bad experience in the future. Your past life does not determine your future, it is what you do now that will determine your future. 

Stay away from negative peoples: Stay away from these people you will get nothing out from these people except negativities. Deep down, these people are very uncertain, sad and have very low self-esteem.

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