These 8 Things Are Wasting Your Valuable Time Everyday
What
has been your most productive day, week or month? Millions of people
spend the greater percentage of their time doing things that does not
add value to their lives.
Among
other things, internet/social media/email, trying to change things
outside of your control, talking instead of doing, procrastination,
worry, waiting on other people, dwelling in regrets, thinking about the
past, worrying about future without planning and worrying about what
others think of you could be wasting your precious time. These are a few
more things that are wasting your valuable time.
1. Criticising yourself for not being perfect
Don’t
be too hard on yourself. There are plenty of people willing to do that
for you. Do your best and surrender the rest. Tell yourself, “I am doing
the best I can with what I have in this moment.
And
that is all I can expect of anyone, including me.” Love yourself and be
proud of everything that you do, even your mistakes. Because even
mistakes mean you’re trying.
2. Waiting for tomorrow
Stop
waiting for tomorrow; you will never get today back. It doesn’t matter
what you’ve done in the past. It doesn’t matter how low or unworthy you
feel right now.
The simple fact that you’re alive makes you worthy. Life is too short for excuses. Stop settling. Stop procrastinating.
Start
today by taking one courageous step forward. If you are not sure
exactly which way to go, it is always wise to follow your heart.
3. Attention deficit
This
is one of the biggest waste of time in an adult life. If you can focus
on a task long enough you can do a great job. Period. Not able to focus
your attention on a single task wastes your energy, makes you lose
interest in the job at hand and let’s you worry about the failure,
making you less productive.
We
have become information hungry that in the pursuit to grab more and
more information we have lost the ability to dedicate time to process
that information ultimately wasting all the time spent in acquiring that
information. Stop craving for more information and focus on your task
at hand.
4. Losing sight of your goals
The
shortest distance between A and B, in both time and space (in our
everyday world) is a straight line. If we lose sight of our goals, or
don’t have well established ones, we meander and waste tremendous
amounts of time. This absence of goals or loss of focus on them informs
many of the other answers here.
5. Uncertainty
When
you are uncertain about what is the best project to spend time on next,
you normally spend a lot of time deciding what’s the most important
thing to move your personal goals forward; You end up creatively
avoiding your big picture tasks and immediate tasks and distract
yourself with social apps. Start planning your weeks and days better.
Map
out what you need to tackle and when. Create blocks for specific
sections for what needs to be done in your life. That way, you will not
not be reacting but you will keep following the plan. Sometimes the plan
changes. That’s okay.
6. Lack of preparation
When
you don’t prepare, you are forced to react to things happening after
the fact instead of handling them in stride… if that makes sense. A
little time spent preparing saves you time later. Its all about putting
things in place sort of like pawns on a chess board.
While
life can throw curveballs at you and you have to do your best to learn
how to deal with things. There is nothing you can do about that per se.
At that point, you have to learn from your mistake as things that
previously were in your blind spot are now 20/20 in hindsight.
7. Known and unknown distractions
Being
distracted by things that are not part of your “life plan”. Reason
dictates that as individuals subject to the passage of time, we can
accomplish just a few things in our short lives.
Decide
what good you can contribute and work towards accomplishing that. One
can either do good, do bad, or do nothing. Deciding what path to take
and spending as much time and effort on staying on that path is the most
efficient use of our available time.
8. Striving for perfection
Not
only actually taking way more time than what is needed to complete
something thinking about what could be wrong or what’s not perfect, this
also includes time wasted not starting on a task because you are afraid
that you can’t do it perfectly. Think 80/20 (The law of the vital few:
by the numbers it means that 80 percent of your outcomes come from 20
percent of your inputs).
It
really doesn’t matter what numbers you apply, the important thing to
understand is that in your life there are certain activities you do
(your 20 percent) that account for the majority (your 80 percent) of
your happiness and outputs.
source: medium.com
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