Here is a list of actions on how to position yourself for success:

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Strengthen Your Core

In the same way a building needs a strong foundation, you need to strengthen your personal being so that you are not swayed by outside forces, including your own ego. Take the time to examine yourself and to really know what is important and valuable in your life. Practice and incorporate these actions:


  • Have extensive boundaries. These are the imaginary lines we create around ourselves to protect our souls, hearts, and minds from the unhealthy or damaging behavior of others.

  • Clear up unresolved matters. Address issues from your past with yourself or others that are holding you back or crippling you in some way.

  • Restore your integrity. To be whole and healthy, we must take responsibility for our actions and respond to the lessons offered to us.

  • Get your needs met. Most of us have our physical needs met, but we all have personal needs that must be met in order to be ourselves. We often are afraid or unwilling to ask for what we need from others.

  • Raise your standards. Define and hold yourself to higher standards to attract high quality people and situations in your life.

  • Stop tolerating what bugs you. Define and address what is draining your time and energy. Just awareness of your tolerations begins the process of eliminating them.

  • Live by your values. Know what you value most and orient your life around those values so you will have a reference point for everything you choose and every action you take.



Source: https://liveboldandbloom.com.

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