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TGIF: FIVE TIPS TO LEAVE WORK AT THE OFFICE

  Work belongs to one of the most important preconditions for individual self-fulfillment in the people’s life. Our occupation and career are inextricably linked to our self-awareness as a significant member of society. The psychologists affirm that this significance is the core need for people to feel full-fledged and happy.  Indeed, how many times a life we ask ourselves “who we are?” and “what is our social value?” Not once, is not it? Moreover, day by day we make tremendous efforts to get an incredibly satisfactory answer to them one day in future. One can say that it is the only right way to live a decent life and it sounds a rather convincing.  However, there are other questions we should answer honestly “do we have a life beyond our office?” and “how much time do we spend with our families?” We can bet that you would not be able to remark the border between these two spheres of your life and when you succeed in this the answer will unlikely be in favor of family. It was not beca

INDECENT DRESSING

 WHAT IS INDECENT DRESSING? Indecent dressing is the major cause of the various assault and sexual harassment recorded in the society.  Indecent dressing is referred to as more specific term as the attitude of someone, male or female that dresses to showoff parts of their body such as breast, buttocks, or even the underwear particularly those of the ladies that need to be covered.  Indecent dressing  has so many effects , such as students who engage in the following activities: prostitution, robbery, lying, poor performance in school, rape and sexual harassment in the case of female students, cultism (mostly among the males, inability to complete one's studies). Indecent dressing is now so common in public places like in the universities, offices and even churches. Students are taking it now as a pleasure and a chance of exposing their bodies to the opposite sex. They no longer wear clothes to cover their body, instead mini-skirt, bum-short, short gowns and even underwears are worn

RAPE

  WHAT IS RAPE? Rape is un lawful sexual activity, which  involve sexual intercourse  , against the will of the victim through force or the threat of force or with an individual who is incapable of giving legal consent because of minor status, mental illness , mental deficiency  , intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception. In many jurisdictions, the crime  of rape has been subsumed under that of sexual assault. Rape was long considered to be caused by unbridled sexual desire, but it is now understood as a pathological assertion of power over a victim . EFFECT AND CONSEQUENCE OF RAPE Vaginal  or anal bleeding or infection Hypoactive sexual desire disorder Vaginitis  or vaginal inflammation Dyspareunia  – painful sexual intercourse Vaginismus  – a condition affecting a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration Chronic pelvic pain Urinary tract infections Pregnancy HIV/AIDS Pregnancy Anxiety:After an attack, rape survivors experience heightened anxiety and fear. s

ARE YOU A SUPPORTIVE FRIEND?

  The relationships that we have in our lives help to form who we are as a person; who we surround ourselves with speaks mountains about us, and  to  us. Our friends represent who we wish to become, who we identify with, and who we care about. It's very common, though, for us to get involved in friendships that are not beneficial or perhaps even healthy for us. Some people will call themselves your friend, but they can be detrimental to you. When you find the right friends, however, the tried and true friends, it just feels  right . They are there for you to lean on and vice versa. True, supportive friends become family. These friendships just feel right and take very little effort to uphold. What Are Characteristics Of A Supportive Friend? Usually, the most supportive friends are those that start in the casual friend category, and over time grows and deepens. A supportive friend is someone who understands who you are and what you need. You will quickly learn that they will be with

FOUR FACES OF LUCK

  Four usages of Luck 1. Luck as superstition This is typified by the belief that future good or bad luck can be influenced by such things as: actions that one might do deliberately (blowing out all the candles of a birthday cake) or  accidentally  (breaking a mirror) or that happen near you (black cat) or even by abstract associations (the number 13); or possession of talismanic objects. Here I have used American examples but all cultures have their own superstitions. What makes such beliefs be superstition, of course, is that one can't point to any causal connection. I mentioned "future events", but believing that past bad luck was caused by a hex would be another superstition. 2. Retrospective luck A short definition of (good) luck is when the outcome of a chance event is favorable to the individual under consideration. Most of us, looking at our individual past experiences, would find instances where we consider we were lucky or unlucky, and this is what I mean by &qu

PERSONALITY: EXPRESSIVES

  Have you ever paid attention to how people interact with one another? I’m betting that most of you don’t.  After you increase your level of awareness, you’ll gain a better understanding of how people generally work. Increasing your awareness levels means that you are consciously paying attention to what is going on around you most of the time. Having the ability to tell what type of personality someone is within only 30 seconds or so of conversation is probably one of the best communication tools you can learn. Having the know how to detect what a person is allows you to transform the way you should be interacting with that particular client. Since your first few minutes of interaction is the most vital, pay close attention to what they say and how they say it. Personality Type: Expressive (Let’s do it!) Now that you’re familiar with the quick and assertive driver, we move on to the can you shut up already Expressive. Have you ever noticed that every time you go to a party, function,

EDUCATION

WHAT IS EDUCATION ?  Education is the process of fostering learning or obtainment of knowledge , skills, values, morals, beliefs and habits. educational methods include teaching, training, storytelling, discussion and directed research.  Education continually takes place under the guidance of educators . However learners can also educate themselves, education takes place in informal and formal settings that has a formative effects on the way they thinks, feels, or acts may considered educational. knowledge they says is power , action they says is the foundational key to success, it is expected for everyone of us to acquire knowledge every blessed day, because no one knows it all , we are classified as a learner till our last breath. IMPORTANCE OF EDUCATION   Having education in an area helps people thinks, feels, and behave in a way that contribute to their success , and improve not only their personal satisfaction but also in their community . In addition education develop human perso

FORCED FRIENDSHIP

  A “forced friendship” is basically where you act like you are friends with someone who does not put any effort into acting likewise. It tends to happen when you really really want to be friends with someone but they are indifferent or hostile to the notion of being friends with you. You don’t do it by just recognizing when someone does not want to be your friend and moving on. 4 Signs You're Forcing the Friendship Don’t force what’s not meant to be. Most of us like getting to know different people and some might even want to be accepted by all. There comes a point where sometimes it seems forced. If you are trying to become friends with someone, don't force it. Here are a few hints to know when you are forcing something. 1.  You are always there without an invite Have you ever noticed yourself being with girls or guys every day, but realizing you have to ask them what they are doing? They do not invite you or call you first, but you always end up with them, and sometimes late

LEADERSHIP

 WHO IS A LEADER? A leader is a someone who have social influence, which maximizes the efforts of others, towards the achievement of a goal.  As a leader, you have to endure many things from your followers like their attitude and behavior because some followers are very stubborn but if you can tolerate all these that is when you can be called a leader. A leader must be able to direct his/ her followers footstep in the sense that if a leader sees that any of his/ her follower going astray, the leader have right to call the attention of his/ her follower to caution the person.  A leader must be able to support his/her followers in any area in terms of needs like shelter,cash and many more that is when you can be called a good leadership. A leader must be able to gather all his/ her followers to give them advice on how to be doing things, how to handle things with care and how to be a good example for people who are actually looking up to them. By doing all these things, that is how you w

RELATIONSHIP: PERSONAL SPACE

  Personal space in a relationship means you're taking time to put yourself first and do things that are just for you—choices that will make you feel great about yourself, putting you in a better mindset to take care of your relationship. The trick is to get the balance right. If your partner says they need space in your relationship, something has gone a little wrong either with the partnership or just in their own life. So, whether you’ve been together for two months or 20 years, you need to take it seriously. The good news is that it’s an easy enough problem to fix as long as you can balance giving them space with making sure that you don’t drift apart. If you do it right, you may find that having a little distance makes you feel more grateful for each other and, ultimately, brings you closer together. Why Do They Need Space? The first thing to do is talk to your partner about why they need space. Even if you feel defensive or strange about it, remember that it’s a totally norma

HOW TO DEAL WITH POVERTY IN THE SOCIETY

                                                  WHAT IS POVERTY? Poverty is not something good in this life. Almost everybody in this world were experiencing extreme poverty but do you know why? Some people will be saying it and also be praying that they no want poverty in their life but let me make it clear to you now that if you are not working and you are just praying the result is still poverty.For those people that don't want to work before they eat, that they will just sit down and be waiting for God's miracle to happen without working were expecting poverty even bible said ''Having faith without a job is as good as being dead'', so also according to this saying that ''Man wey no work, no go chop''. It also says that ''No food for lazy man'' and for those that born plenty children without having any work you are doing is calling for poverty totally because how will they feed the children. Poverty  is the state of  not havi

PERSONALITY TRAITS

  Personality traits reflect people’s characteristic patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Personality traits imply consistency and stability—someone who scores high on a specific trait like Extraversion is expected to be sociable in different situations and over time. Thus, trait psychology rests on the idea that people differ from one another in terms of where they stand on a set of basic trait dimensions that persist over time and across situations. The most widely used system of traits is called the Five-Factor Model. This system includes five broad traits that can be remembered with the acronym OCEAN: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. Each of the major traits from the Big Five can be divided into facets to give a more fine-grained analysis of someone's personality. In addition, some trait theorists argue that there are other traits that cannot be completely captured by the Five-Factor Model. Critics of the trait concept argue t