Things that are important in a relationship

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Two people and the love between them indeed make a relationship but is that enough to have a lasting relationship? Well, not really because other aspects are equally cardinal in a relationship. These make the foundations of a relationship. Without them, the connection will start to wither at the smallest of troubles. So, what are these other important things in a relationship, and why are they essential.These are the essential elements in a relationship and why they are vital.

Trust: if love is what makes a relationship exciting, trust is what keeps it going strong. When there is trust, peace prevails in the relationship but if the partners do not trust each other enough, they spend their whole life doubting the other’s every action. No one deserves a love that needs them to keep tabs or constantly worry about what the partner might be doing behind their back.

Loyalty:It is The resistance to unhealthy thought about a beautiful colleague, it is refusing to flirt back with an old flame. Love with loyalty is probably more important than just love. So when your partner cannot stay loyal but says ‘I love you’ will you be able to believe those words?Probably not. Love combined with loyalty is pure and long-lasting. Your partner may not be as attractive as your colleague or as soft-spoken as your old flame but you chose them each time and when you are loyal to the one you love, that is one thing you would not change for the rest of your life.

Happiness: You may not always be happy in a relationship, but when you look back, the happy times must outweigh the sad ones. Happiness is an essential ingredient for a lasting relationship, so how do you be happy? Is it your partner’s job? No! Your happiness should be in your hands, you cannot expect your partner to be the keeper of your happiness. 

Anyways, the health of the relationship depends on both partners. If you are happy and content with yourself, you will be able to enjoy being in a relationship. Also, you can bring in positive vibes into the relationship. So, always make yourself a priority and do things which can make you happy. This will surely resonate into your relationship 

Respect: Respect is as important as love in a relationship. When you truly love someone, you love them for who they are. And such love automatically brings in respect for your partner. Also, a relationship is a bond between two adults with different opinions and views. Respecting each other is the basic foundation you need for a healthy relationship.

Emotional Support: A relationship can take you on a roller coaster of emotions but what makes it worthy is having your partner right next to you, holding your hand, through all that. In a loving relationship, you’d want that. When you hear happy news, you long to share it with your partner and when you are feeling down and depressed you’d want your partner to hold you and tell you that it’ll be okay. 

Partners who are there for each other emotionally stick together as a team, dealing with whatever life throws at them. They create a safe place in their relationship where one partner can be vulnerable without the fear of being judged by the other and when necessary they are always there to lend a shoulder to cry on for the partner.


By: Amusan Blessing

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