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Being the bigger person   is not about offering unlimited forgiveness, regardless of the offense. It’s not about allowing someone to get away with hurting you, giving them permission to walk over you, giving them second chance after second chance. Being the bigger person means not allowing your anger to take control of you. It means finding a way to   accept   what has happened to you, even if you are not   okay   with what has happened to you. It means being mature enough to stand in the same room as someone you cannot trust, someone you wish you would never see again, and handling yourself like an adult. Being the bigger person does not mean you have to walk over to someone who hurt you and act like everything is fine. It does not mean you have to be happy about running into them again. It does not mean you have to keep quiet if they start trouble. It simply means you’re not going to let them ruin your night, you’re not going to let them bother you, because they mean nothing to you.

Mistake is an act or judgement that is misguided or wrong. As long as we exist, we make mistakes consciously or unconsciously. There are two types of mistakes. They are; 1. Conscious mistake 2. Unconscious mistake. 1.Conscious mistake:  There are few mistakes we repeat everyday knowingly. We name it as a habit or laziness. For an example: you know that you will get punishment, if coming late in school or office. In addition, you are doing it every day.  2.Unconscious mistake:  Some mistakes we made because of the lack of knowledge or experience. It could be selection of subjects or college if you are a student. A youngster can choose a career that does not align with his life purpose. It could be a decision that caused loss in business if you are a businessperson. Simple steps to correct Mistakes: 1.When we fail at something or something goes wrong: First thing is recognizing what went wrong and why. 2.Until you find your fault or recognize your mistake, you cannot fix or learn from i