How to be More Social: A 3 Steps Guide for the Introvert

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 Everyone wants to be happy and live a successful life. People want to be able to mix around with others and enjoy the moments together. It may sound simple, but that’s not always the case. This is especially true if you are an introvert. If you don’t like to socialize, but you wanted to make more friends and be more outgoing, what should you do? Well, simple, read this article and follow the 5-step guide to make yourself more sociable.  We are sociable animals that we like to mix around with others. If you are an introvert and not used to social, follow these 3  steps below:


  1. Always Start Small And Simple

The first step is to always remember your purpose. If you are trying to make friends with other and to open up yourself, go slow on it. You don’t have to rush yourself into this and talk to everyone you see on the street. If you don’t use to social activities and are not an outgoing person, rushing into things will only make matters worse. Always start simple and simple. For instance, you can make a new friend a month; join a new party or a new event once a month. Well, depending on your purpose and character, you don’t have to drink with strangers every night if you don’t want to. 

  1. Keep Your Mind Open

Try to be more open and allow yourself to mix in with others. It is true that the first impression is the most important, but do not judge people by how they look until you get to know them. Someone may drive a luxury car and wear a decent shirt but that does not mean that he or she is rich. The person may be in debt but he just wants to look good on the outside. Therefore, keep an open mind. Tell yourself that you are just making friends and get to know new people.

  1. Take The First Step – Make A Friend

You don’t have to wait for other people to date you. You can be the one to take the first step. Just pick up the phone and call up someone. Even if you are an introvert , it will be alright. In fact, it is a good practice to build your confidence and courage. It is not that people are not sociable or outgoing; it is that people are lazy and often too afraid to make the first contact. They worry what if they got rejected. They are loosing the battle in their time.



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