7 Signs Your Mistakes Have Made You Stronger Even Though You Don’t Feel So

We all make mistakes. It’s part of life. The beauty of making mistakes is that it gives us a valuable opportunity to learn and grow as a person. Yes, the consequences of making a mistake is quite difficult to accept, and it can be hard at times. But if you are able to accept them, it does make you a better person in the end – although it can be a bit tricky to know in time.

There are many signs which show you that your mistakes can make you a stronger person. In this article I will show you the seven signs which will show you how your mistakes can make you a stronger person, even though you don’t feel so.

1. You are more calmer when you confront a similar situation

When you realize you are about to make the same mistake as before, you’ll know how to handle the situation. You will be much more calmer. Although you may not know this, but your past mistake has served as a valuable opportunity for you to gain experience. And when you have gained experienced in something, you will be more assured of yourself.

2. You don’t dwell on your past mistakes

This sign may be not be spotted so easily without practicing self-awareness. If you have learned from your mistake, you will be able to move on. This will allow you to proceed to the next chapter of your life. And when you can comfortably go on to this next chapter, you no longer dwell on your past mistakes. In fact, whenever you do look back to your mistake, you will appreciate how far you have come.

3. You’re are grateful for the lessons that you have learned from your mistakes

There are two ways to look at your mistakes. The first way is by forgetting that you ever made the mistake in first place, and the second way is to accept your mistake and see what you can learn from it. If you have chosen the latter option, you will become more grateful. By viewing every mistake as an opportunity to learn to better yourself, you will become more motivated in becoming the best version of yourself.

4. You are more present

Since you don’t dwell on your mistakes from the past, that means you don’t worry about making the same mistakes in the future. People who don’t learn from their mistakes tend to constantly worry about the past and future. But not you though, since you chose to learn from your mistakes, you don’t worry about the future or the past, you focus on the present.

5. You’ve matured

Being able to learn from past mistakes is definitely a sign of maturity. When you show maturity, you have accepted total responsibility of your actions that caused the mistake in the first place. People who don’t tend to learn from their mistakes will try to pass on the blame to others. Maturity is a clear sign that you are developing a strong mentality.

6. You are more humble

Following on from the previous point, accepting the fact that your actions have caused your mistake to happen in the first place, allows you to become more humble. You demonstrate more humility and you actually relate to people much better, especially to those who have, or are about to, make the same mistake as you.

7. You are wiser

This last sign is a bit like Yoda and Star Wars. If you accepted the fact that making mistakes gives you the opportunity to learn, then with each mistake you make, you will become a little bit wiser. And since you are more humble and show humility, you have this urge to share this newly profound knowledge. Even though you may not pass on your insightful wisdom in a preachy type of way, you totally understand that it is up to the other person to accept your wise words.

source: www.lifehack.org